By: webmutant
Nope. No trouble. We generally plan things out about a week ahead of time, and allow for emergencies. (As in, "I know this was supposed to be your night with him, but I got fired today / found out my...
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And there's never trouble? Never "hey, but I wanted to see you tonight, but you're with him...." etc?
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It's okay, I'm used to these questions. Riff and tree have an apartment together; tree is over here quite often. As for what one of us does when she's with the other, it varies; we either sleep alone...
View ArticleBy: jonson
okay, webmutant, I've tried to refrain from asking, but my worse nature has got the better of me: do you three all live together? Multiple beds? What does one of you do when she's sleeping with the...
View ArticleBy: dg
I just don't "get" what's upsetting about it. I don't get how people are not upset by it but, hey, different strokes... People manage to accept best friends, pets, dedication to career or hobbies...
View ArticleBy: mdn
I salute those, however, who are able to compartmentalise their feelings well enough to do so. Sort of. you obviously don't really, considering you described non-jealous reactions as...
View ArticleBy: dg
A woman who wants to make a career of her husband, children, family, and homeDoes that make her a part-time wife in a 3-way relationship? beth, I would in no way be able to handle a relationship that...
View ArticleBy: mdn
I mean, jealousy has an adaptive advantage in evolutionary terms, so it's pretty deeply wired into us. well, that's one theory to explain a fairly common tendency among us, but evolutionary advantage...
View ArticleBy: beth
One thing I wonder about such relationships is how do people deal with jealousy. I mean, jealousy has an adaptive advantage in evolutionary terms, so it's pretty deeply wired into us. I don't deny that...
View ArticleBy: billsaysthis
I always thought that love is about the one thing we can make as much of as we want, and loving one person doesn't in any way diminish our love for another.
View ArticleBy: webmutant
*waves* To out myself here for a minute, it's my family that Lokheed is talking about. Civil_Disobedient: Sure, her commitment might be "split" between the two of us -- but it's no less strong for that.
View ArticleBy: Zurishaddai
Polygamy.com is just the tip of the iceberg. I've been looking around, and the "spiritual swinger" subculture is a strange thing. Have a look at this discussion forum (including threads on sex among...
View ArticleBy: jonson
Three favorite quotes (from different personals): We do not believe in homosexual relationships! Although we believe that the 'two women' are okay as long as it does not take the place of the male. We...
View ArticleBy: Fabulon7
Me and My 5 wives have 32 children. We want one more wife to come and live with us so we can have more. We love God and the outdoors. We have 3 ferretts and 4 dogs. Please respond.
View ArticleBy: hob
Being honest about how you handle extrarelationship hoo-haa does not, in itself, equal polyamory to me. Once again, as many definitions of Polyamory as there are Polyamorists. I'm Poly; in my case, it...
View ArticleBy: SisterHavana
Nobody looking for another wife in Chicago but there is a group in Bloomington, IN, where I went to school. Woo hoo! What is the Amenite faith?
View ArticleBy: mecran01
I live in the desert west of Lehi Utah. There is a polygamist settlement that I drive by every day. Mormons get excommunicated when they practice polygamy, although they often form splinter groups....
View ArticleBy: insomnia_lj
My wife and I *are* polyamorous, but not prone to sleep around wildly. We've been together for nearly 15 years, but in the four years we've been openly polyamorous, we've had six external relationships...
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